
Updated June 3, 2010


After returning to the University of Texas at Austin, I was awarded a MS in mechanical engineering in 1973 soon after marrying my first wife Kay. In 1974, I became a Staff Member of the Los Alamos National Laboratory in New Mexico, providing engineering support for plasma physics experiments. From 1977 until I retired in 2001, I worked in the area of accelerator technology.




Kay and I were divorced in 1979, and I turned my energies to long-distance running, finishing two full marathons (the best in 3 hours and
20 minutes) and two ascent runs up Pikes Peak. After returning from a year
working at a Canadian laboratory in Ontario, I married my second wife Arlene in 1982, with her two children, Rob (11) and Allison (7).
Memorable projects for me at Los Alamos were the BEAR project that operated the first proton accelerator in space, the CRITS RFQ project that was the first time a CW (continuous wave) proton beam had been injected into an RFQ accelerator, and the last project that was for the LEDA project, the design, construction, and successful operation of the world's most powerful proton injector. LEDA was the first step to an accelerator that could burn up radioactive waste while producing all the power to run the accelerator plus supply 2000 megawatts to the electrical grid. The LEDA program was so successful that it was immediately cancelled, and now the South Koreans are continuing it.
It was time to retire, which I did in 2001. The chosen spot was Crested Butte, Colorado, a wonderful little town in a high Rocky Mountain valley, to
a dream home with an awesome view down the valley. In addition to skiing and hiking, I enjoyed being a school crossing guard and talking with the kids. It was a good retirement, and I seemed to "have the world on astring", but that ended in a very messy divorce in 2009.

At present, I am splitting my time between Fredericksburg, Texas and Colorado. I am very fortunate to have two step-children whom I raised and who still welcome me in their homes. They have given me three grandchildren, two girls and a boy, a source of real joy to me. At this stage in my life, I want to finish a book of history on which I have been working for many years, and I would like to teach part-time at the post-high school level.
I feel I've had a good and successful life, if not in my personal affairs. At present, I have no objective other than enjoying each new day as it comes. Life is good!
Lash

I will be staying at the Swiss Efficiency B&B with - gasp - my lady love, Judy, whom I fully expect to marry sooner rather than later. A picture of Judy that I took a few days ago is attached. We met online. After we had emailed back and forth many times, and had spoken a few times, it was
obvious to both of us that this relationship could be something really special. We agree to meet, but nothing really prepared me for what happened when we did. Judy opened the door, and I was greeted by a lady who kind of took my breath away because her pictures had not done her justice. Judy simply reached out, took both my hands in hers, drew me a little closer, and said let me have a look at you. Then she just gazed into my eyes for some time. And I was smitten.
Within six hours after we met, Judy and I were discussing where this relationship was going. This has been a total surprise for both of us, a
bolt out of the blue. I never expected to meet someone like Judy, and I think she never expected to meet someone like me. But here we are. We both know where we want to go, and that it is to be with each other. Judy is my age and about 5'5" tall. She is outgoing, warm, and has impeccable manners. In comparison, my table manners are that of a slob. Judy was born and raised in Hondo, Texas, a little town west of San Antonio with a population of about six thousand. Like me, Judy has had two marriages that ended in divorce. The third time may well be the charm, and we intend to make sure
that saying is true for us.
Judy is a retired senior vice president of a large international fashion/beauty business, Sally Beauty. It's in Google. She managed a budget of about $20M a year and said she could be very "vice presidential" as a manager when required. Using her connections and expertise, Judy has raised many millions for breast cancer awareness and charities. In large measure, Judy is a self-made successful woman, something that I really admire. Judy lives in Denton, Texas, a small city of about 100,000 north of Dallas/Fort Worth. She has a son and a daughter, both married, and she outnumbers me in grandchildren, four to three. Judy does have some unobvious health issues, but she loves the outdoors. She has a great sense of humor, and has been so encouraging to me in the things I do.
We'll fly in on the 23rd and back to the lower 48 on the 30th. See you soon, and you'll meet her!
